This past week, I preached at Central’s contemporary WAVE
service on belonging. As part of our “Book and a Bible” series, I delved into
Brené Brown’s newest book, Braving the
Wilderness: The Quest for True Belonging and the Courage to Stand Alone.
Some of you might be familiar with Brené through her New York Times bestselling books, interviews on Oprah, or popular
TED talk on vulnerability.
As a
sociologist and researcher, Brené interviewed numerous eighth graders on the
difference between belonging and fitting in. Their answers were insightful and
worth sharing:
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Belonging is being somewhere where you want to be, and
they want you. Fitting in is being somewhere where you want to be, but they
don’t care one way or the other.
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Belonging is being accepted for you. Fitting in is
being accepted for being like everyone else.
·
If I get to be me, I belong. If I have to be like you,
I fit in.
The delineation in their definitions is relatable. It’s also
illustrative of the fact that true belonging requires authentic self.
As much as
we’re wired for genuine connection, it requires courage to present our
authentic self to others and honor it ourselves. Brené writes, “No vulnerability,
no courage.” But it is precisely our vulnerability that can bring us greater
joy and even has the capacity to heal our increasingly divisive society.
When we
recognize what binds us as humans is greater than what divides us, when we
believe in mutual love and respect, and when we come together for a purpose
larger than ourselves, we begin to cultivate a community where authentic selves
can thrive. And that is something we hope, friends, Central offers you through
Jesus Christ.
Coming together for Lent and Holy Week is a
time-honored tradition that celebrates the love that unites us all. In Jesus,
we all belong and are welcome. I hope to see you in worship!
Warm Easter Wishes,
Pastor Noelle
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